Thoughts on Baseball and Lawrence

indians-croppedThe despair I felt watching the Indians lose Game 7 of the World Series in extra innings last night brought to mind previous baseball seasons and the bitter-sweet passage of time. 

Cleveland baseball fans well remember Game 7 of the 1997 World Series when the Indians also lost in extra innings. My boys were little at the time (ages four and one) and they slept soundly through the crushing disappointment.

Although it seemed the world had ended for me and everyone in Cleveland the day after that defeat, my little boys were blissfully unaware and life blessedly moved on. As the years passed, they faced their own challenges at school that made a World Series loss seem like a walk in the park.

indians2Then, we found Lawrence School. No World Series win could compare to the relief and joy I felt knowing my boys had found a school where they could thrive and grow.

Today, my older son is a college graduate forging into his adult life while my younger son is a sophomore in college buried in books and papers. Neither slept through Game 7 this time around. Although terribly disappointed by the defeat, they know that sometimes the ball doesn’t fall your way and rain delays can happen at the worst possible times. Thanks to the many lessons they learned at Lawrence, they know how to both celebrate victory and graciously manage defeat. Watching them grow, I do too.

This is my Lawrence story. I invite you to make a gift to the Annual Fund and help those children who slept through last night’s game find their Lawrence story one day.

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eiben_mrs-_34Jayne Eiben is a Lawrence alumni parent as well as the school’s Advancement Director. Prior to coming to Lawrence, she taught middle school English and social studies at Laurel School. When her sons were young, she worked as a freelance journalist writing articles for the local NPR station, newspapers and magazines. After college, she worked as a sports agent and events coordinator at IMG where she represented professional tennis players and ice skaters. Jayne received her bachelor’s degree in English Literature from the University of Michigan and her master’s degree in Education from John Carroll University. She welcomes your comments at


Upper School Head’s Blog: Inspiring ‘Passion and Meaning’ In a New School Year


A Little Inspiration…

“Education is not filling a pail but the lighting of a fire.”  ~William Butler Yeats

I think this quote sums up the essence of the work Lawrence strives to do with each of our students.  Certainly, we wish to fill each student’s pail with tools and resources that will help them be successful learners – in lower, middle and high school, and beyond.

More than that, however, if we can light a fire in their hearts, souls and minds, we will have achieved a much higher purpose.

It matters not where the fire is lit – whether in the classroom, on the stage, or on the sports field, what matters is that students find the aspect of human life that excites and inspires them. In so doing, they begin to live lives of passion and meaning.  And this is what propels all of us forward in life – doing something we love and feeling passionate about it.


It is exciting and heartening to see our students so excited about the new school year.   Clubs and sports are up and running, classes are humming along and students are engaging with teachers and staff in a meaningful way.  We’re off to a smooth and successful start, for which I am very grateful.

Thanks to the parents and family members who have approached me already this year to ask questions, express gratitude and chat about concerns that are weighing on hearts and minds.  I value your input and welcome your comments.  Please call (330.908.6810) or e-mail anytime.

And Some Information…

  • Welcome to Targeted Intervention (TI)!  Replacing our PASS program is the newly formulated Targeted Intervention Program (TI).  In the middle school, TI happens mid-day and – for first quarter – will focus on helping all students learn to use assistive technology tools effectively and expediently.  In the high school, TI happens first thing in the morning and is designed to ensure that students receive additional academic support in their area of greatest need.   Questions about TI?  E-mail or call (330.908.6804)  Mrs. Cook, Academic Dean.
  • Online Gradebook Access – Over the summer, Lawrence School implemented a new Student Information System (SIS).   If you’ve not yet logged on to the new Parent Portal, which is found on our website under “My Lawrence” at the top of the screen, you’re missing out!  Check here for information and updates regularly. This is also where you can access the “Upper School Gradebook”. The Gradebook can be used to keep track of your child’s homework assignments as well as monitor how he or she is progressing in each class.  More on this to follow.
  • Nursing Services – We have had a change in nursing services since the start of the school year.  Tori, who was our nurse, accepted a full-time position at a local hospital. We are working with our provider to find a permanent nurse for the clinic and will continue to have substitute nurses until then. We appreciate your patience and understanding.  Please know that we will ensure that all student health needs are well cared for during this transition phase.

Watch for this blog on a regular basis.  It will hopefully contain information that will be of value to you.

Until next time – Go Lions!


Jason Culp is the Head of Upper School at Lawrence. He holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Baldwin-Wallace College and a Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.  Jason is licensed as a Professional Counselor (PC) with the State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist Board. He welcomes your comments at

Welcome to Our Pride of Lions!

I will do what I can, with what I have, where I am.  (Theodore Roosevelt)
I will start where I am. Use what I have. Do what I can. (Arthur Ashe)

Lawrence Lions, welcome to the new school year!

The last few weeks at Lawrence have filled me with awe and wonder.  As I walk the halls greeting students and teachers, I can feel the buzz and vibration coming from each classroom.  It never gets old to witness the heart of the school beating, the spirit of the place soaring, boundaries and limitations giving way as each of our students pushes their envelope and faces the challenges of the moment in the classroom, in clubs and activities or on the fields and courts of athletic competition.

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Just this past week we hosted a tailgate celebration, a cross-country invitational track meet, and volleyball, soccer and golf matches. Our home games brought crowds of cheering Lion families to our campus. Our students threw themselves body and spirit into each of these activities and at the same time rooted for and encouraged one another.

They were confident as they met the challenges of team competition, reliant on themselves and each other as they pushed past doubts and personal bests, joyful despite exhaustion and pain, and sustained and buoyed by the support of teachers, coaches, friends and family in the stands and on the sidelines.


The Varsity and Middle School Boys teams were champions of last weekend’s cross country meet at the Upper School campus.

These events and contests are microcosms of the larger school experience for our students— a crucible in which our students find the presence and power of their own spirit, grit and determination. In these settings they measure and apply what they have learned and practiced with peers and coaches in an authentic and personally meaningful way.

Make no mistake: this is self-efficacy in action!

This is learning and engagement of the most significant and meaningful kind. I call it agency and Lawrence aspires to infuse it in the hearts and minds of each one of our students. Students need to be seen, heard, understood, and embraced as learners and as individuals.

Lawrence appropriately challenges and sufficiently supports our students to achieve and grow as individuals through the activities and initiatives that matter to them in the moment as students.  In turn, they can participate and affiliate as engaged members of the community in ways that will sustain them beyond the borders of our campuses and their days as students.

Once a student experiences their own efficacy and their own agency, they become lion-hearted advocates for themselves, for each other, and for their school community.  See this agency in action and witness the power of the Pride of Lions on our website, social media and campus!

Welcome to the Pride of Lions and a new school year at Lawrence School!


Lou Salza is the Head of School at Lawrence School in Northeast Ohio. He currently serves as a trustee for the Ohio Association of Independent Schools and as past president of the Cleveland Council of Independent Schools.  Prior to joining Lawrence School in July of 2007, Lou served for 11 years as Head of School for ASSETS School for Gifted, Dyslexic and Gifted-Dyslexic students in Honolulu. For eight years prior to that, Lou was the Assistant Principal of the Hamilton Wenham Regional High School. He also served in various positions over 13 years at Landmark School in Beverly Massachusetts. He can be contacted at

How is Progress Monitoring Used at Lawrence?

In our last blog post, Mr. Musolf introduced the idea of Progress Monitoring by using a clear and simple road trip analogy. In this entry, he goes on to explain how it is implemented at Lawrence Lower School.

Formative Progress Monitoring at Lawrence Lower School – utilizing the Aimsweb System through Pearson – has been designed to capture students’ growth with academic fluency.  Each student receives monitoring with their fluency skills in reading, math facts, and writing.

Please note, there are many other ways we monitor academic growth, including daily teacher observation; in-class assignments; reviews; mastered homework; mid-year reports; end-year reports; and as mentioned in the previous blog, summative Woodcock Johnson Achievement testing.

Progress monitoring simply captures one aspect of a student’s academic profile – fluency.

Fluency can be measured by evaluating how fast a student can perform a task. A student’s speed increases gradually as skill, accuracy, and proficiency improves with a task. It can be measured over time and improvement in rate can be interpreted as progress. Essentially, fluency measures how “easy” something can be done. It frees up cognitive energy to perform the more difficult tasks.


For example, if a student spends considerable mental energy decoding when reading, their comprehension is likely to be impacted. Similarly, if a student spends a lot of time trying to remember basic math facts, there may be confusion or simple errors when trying to apply math in story problems or real world contexts. Lastly, if a student is mechanically slow to get their thoughts down on paper, they may lose their idea and not be able to communicate as well in writing.

Here is a simple description of the three areas (reading, math, writing) we monitor progress for at Lawrence:

  • Reading fluency is simply the number of words read correctly within a minute from a passage. This is measured weekly for those students who need it.
  • Math fluency is simply the number of basic math facts in a specific computation area (addition, subtraction, multiplication, division) a student can correctly perform in two minutes. This is measured weekly for ALL students.
  • Writing fluency measures the total number of words written as well as how often a student can pair two words consecutively that convey meaning and are spelled correctly. The students are given a writing prompt, 60 seconds to brainstorm, and three minutes to write. This is measured biweekly for ALL students.

Overall, for most of the students, progress is captured by improvement in fluency performance and/or accuracy. It is only one piece of many that captures how well a son or daughter is performing at Lawrence.

This process helps us answer some important academic questions. Is a child progressing? If so, how quickly? Are they benefiting from Lawrence techniques? Are they heading in the right direction?

Evaluation requires a bit of courage. Afterall, what if the results are not favorable? This prompts more difficult questions like “What are we doing that is not working?” or “What do we need to do differently?”

But remember, it is of great benefit to answer those difficult questions in the middle of a school year, so we have time to tweak what needs to be done. Our goal is just like our parents’ goal: To help each one of our students reach their fullest potential.

And that is a trip worth taking!



Bill Musolf joined Lawrence in June 2007 as the Dean of Students at the Lower School campus. He has been in education since 1993, serving as a school psychologist and elementary guidance counselor. Bill received his bachelor’s degree in Psychology from The Ohio State University, and completed both his master’s and Education Specialist degrees at Michigan State University. He can be contacted at

What is Progress Monitoring?

Let’s say you were taking a road trip from Seattle to New York and only had one week to complete it. Once started, you might begin to wonder “Am I heading in the right direction?” “Am I making good time?” “Will I even end up in New York?” To answer those questions, you will need to evaluate your progress.

There are mainly two forms of evaluation – summative and formative.

Summative evaluation occurs at the end, after a task is finished. It helps answer the question of “Did we get where we wanted to go?” In the trip example above, it would be the equivalent of driving without using any navigation tools – no GPS, no map, no road signs. After a week, you would simply get out of the car and ask someone, “Where am I?”

Altwherearewegoinghough a summative evaluation is helpful, it doesn’t always allow for a timely readjusting of plans. It answers the question of whether or not you arrived in New York (and if not, how close you were), but if the answer was “No,” it doesn’t allow for rerouting. Because the evaluation occurred at the end of the week, driving adjustments are no longer possible.

At Lawrence Lower School, we use the Woodcock Johnson Tests of Achievement, Fourth edition (WJ-IV) as a summative evaluation. At the end of the year, each Lower School student takes the WJ-IV. Results are compiled, given to parents, and help answer the question “Where did we end up?” academically.  It’s good information, but what if the results are not as positive and significant growth was not made? Since it is given at the end of the year, there is no time to make curriculum adjustments.

That is where Progress Monitoring comes into play. Progress Monitoring is a formative evaluation. Formative evaluation helps answer the questions: “Are we heading in the right direction?” and “Are we going at the right speed?”

It is an ongoing assessment.

Using our earlier analogy, it would be like making the same trip from Seattle to New York – only this time, using a GPS system. You would check the GPS regularly and make sure you’re on the right road and that your “estimated time of arrival” is still on track. The benefit of formative evaluation is that it offers feedback in a timely way that allows modification to the plan and adjustments to the route.

If your GPS indicated you were not on the right road or that your arrival time was off, you could reroute or speed up as necessary. In education terms, this means modifying instruction in a way that more efficiently benefits the student’s learning.

This certainly only captures the “big picture” uses of Progress Monitoring, but hopefully the analogy makes that picture a bit more clear. In my next blog, I’ll explain in greater detail how we use progress monitoring at the Lower School. In addition to the quantitative aspects of Progress Monitoring, there are qualitative aspects as well. It helps to develop a profile of an individual student’s strengths and weaknesses, what academic areas are mastered, which are still more challenging, what error patterns are evident, etc.

So get out your GPS systems, fasten your seatbelts, and let’s enjoy the scenery as we make our long distance academic road trip together.



Bill Musolf joined Lawrence in June 2007 as the Dean of Students at the Lower School campus. He has been in education since 1993, serving as a school psychologist and elementary guidance counselor. Bill received his bachelor’s degree in Psychology from The Ohio State University, and completed both his master’s and Education Specialist degrees at Michigan State University. He can be contacted at

There are 1,000 Reasons To Give

There are 1,000 reasons to give to Lawrence School. Each gift – no matter how big or small – makes a difference in the lives of our students and community in so many ways.

This video captures some of the meaningful ways your gifts impact our school and the individuals who bring it to life. Please don’t forget to add Lawrence School to your holiday giving list on #GivingTuesday (Dec. 1) and throughout the holiday season!

To make a gift online and help us reimagine school, simply visit

How Do You Know Which Tech Tool Is Right For Your Learner?

techTechnology is evolving and growing at a startling pace in our society. New devices and game-changing software are developed and launched quickly.

This has led to a boom in assistive technology tools for students and adults who learn differently. But with the sea of services, software and devices available, sometimes it feels like you need an advanced degree in computer science just to find the right tool!

Jackie Hersh

Jackie Hersh, Director of Assistive Technology and Learning Support

At Lawrence School, we are fortunate to have a team of dedicated, talented and enthusiastic technology experts on staff. Jackie Hersh, our Director of Assistive Technology and Learning Support, offered the following tips to help parents navigate these seemingly murky waters:

  • Consider your student first. Understanding your child’s strengths and weaknesses is the most important consideration when determining which assistive technology tool to implement. For instance, if you have a child who struggles using a touch pad, you may want to consider a touch screen or a mouse. Likewise, a student who struggles with reading but has strong listening skills may benefit from the use of audio books or a text-to-speech app.
  • Understand the environment where the device will be used. Some environments will impact the use of the device. Consider whether your student will have access to Wi-Fi at school, which is required for some programs and apps. Speech-to-text software is an excellent tool, however in a class of 30 students its benefits would be very limited. Additionally, if personal devices are not allowed, bringing your iPad loaded with the best programs would be pointless.
  • Keep the task in mind. It’s easy to get excited about a shiny new tool, but your child’s academic task or need must come first. One way to keep the task at the forefront is to use the teacher’s directions and expectations as a guide. IEP objectives are also a great starting point for identifying tasks.


  • The timing of learning a new tool is just as important. Learning a new tool can be stressful. Starting a new implementation process right before midterms or other stressful times in your child’s life will only add to their anxiety. At the same time, I don’t recommend starting this process right before a holiday break as there will be few opportunities for immediate application.
  • Training is key! Training is crucial in the implementation of any tool as it allows us to learn how we can best use it to achieve our goal. Training also includes troubleshooting tips and follow-up to make sure things are running smoothly. Training supports for parents are important so they can help their child when they are struggling.

Do you have specific questions about your device or want to learn more about the assistive technology tools used and endorsed at Lawrence School? Join us at the Upper School tonight (Nov. 11) from 7-8:30 p.m., as our expert tech staff presents, Assistive Technology Tools for School and Work. This free session will feature plenty of time for Q&A and hands-on demonstrations. Register online here.

Early Intervention Key to Positive Outcomes for Children with Learning Differences

kindergarten2Jane D. Hull once wrote, “at the end of the day, the most overwhelming key to a child’s success is the positive involvement of parents.”

This sage advice does not differ when applied to the parent of a child with learning differences. The positive involvement of one or both parents can determine the difference between success and failure for the child who struggles to learn. And the earlier the positive involvement begins, the better for all concerned.

Research in the field of learning differences is clear – early intervention is the key to long-term positive outcomes.

kindergarten3The sooner a child with learning challenges is evaluated, diagnosed and begins to receive supportive intervention and accommodation, the lesser the overall negative effect of the learning difference. In many years of work in the field of learning differences, there has never been an occasion where a parent discussed regretting early intervention. In many, many cases, however, there is great parental regret over having waiting too long to begin the evaluation, diagnosis and intervention process.

The longer a child must wait for intervention, the easier it is for the seeds of doubt to take root. The child may begin to believe that the learning difference forms the basis of their identity, and that school failure is to be expected. Effective early intervention services can prevent such harmful seeds from ever finding fertile ground in which to grow.

According to LD Online, symptoms of learning differences in preschool through grade 4 include:


  • Speaks later than most children
  • Pronunciation problems
  • Slow vocabulary growth, often unable to find the right word
  • Difficulty rhyming words
  • Trouble learning numbers, alphabet, days of the week, colors, shapes
  • Extremely restless and easily distracted
  • Trouble interacting with peers
  • Difficulty following directions or routines
  • Fine motor skills slow to develop

Grades K-4

  • Slow to learn the connection between letters and sounds
  • Confuses basic words
  • Makes consistent reading and spelling errors including letter reversals (b/d), inversions (m/w), transpositions (felt/left), and substitutions (house/home)
  • Transposes number sequences and confuses arithmetic signs
  • Slow to remember facts
  • Slow to learn new skills, relies heavily on memorization
  • Impulsive, difficulty planning
  • Unstable pencil grip
  • Trouble learning about time
  • Poor coordination, unaware of physical surroundings, prone to accidents

While this is not an exhaustive list of symptoms, it is a guide that parents can use to determine if their child might be in need of additional support in the classroom, or a full assessment for the presence of a learning difference.

Once the need for early intervention has been determined, the next most important step is for parents to ensure that their child is placed in the most supportive, enriching educational environment possible. Assessing the right fit for the child with a learning challenge requires exhaustive research, interviews with school personnel and possession of the right documentation to ensure access to all applicable learning supports.

summerThe longer a student with a learning difference languishes in an unsupportive environment with people who do not thoroughly understand the challenges the child faces, the more likely the student is to suffer negative school and life outcomes.

Conversely, students who are educated in an environment where learning differences are understood, and even celebrated, can look forward to far greater success in school and in life. The simple process of experiencing academic and social success in school, despite a learning challenge, lays the groundwork for a positive mindset.

As a result, the child realizes he can succeed with the learning difference, not in spite of it. This understanding helps guide the child toward a future of unlimited potential.

Head of Upper School

Jason Culp, Head of Upper School

Jason Culp has been the Head of Upper School at Lawrence since 2010 and a member of the Lawrence School community since 2002. Jason holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Baldwin-Wallace College and a Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.  Jason is licensed as a Professional Counselor (PC) with the State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist Board.

Meet The Upper School Leadership Team

As the new school year begins, we want to ensure that you are familiar with the staff members who will be working with your child this year.

Today, we’re going to feature the Upper School Head’s Office, consisting of Head of Upper School Jason Culp, Dean of Students Shanika Lovelace, Academic Dean Cheryl Cook, and Administrative Coordinator Melissa Tullis. This four-member team is responsible for the day-to-day successful operation of the school, and they take the commitment we have made to you and your child very seriously.

From L to R: Jason Culp, Cheryl Cook, Melissa Tullis and Shanika Lovelace.

From L to R: Jason Culp, Cheryl Cook, Melissa Tullis and Shanika Lovelace.

Jason Culp is entering his 14th year as a Lawrence School staff member, and sixth as Head of the Upper School. Jason’s areas of focus include teacher supervision and evaluation, parent communication and collaboration, strategic planning, as well as managing the budget for the upper school and serving on a variety of committees and working groups aimed at continuous school improvement. Jason is the first point of contact for questions about the overall operation of the school, specific concerns about an individual student’s experience, and can serve as a resource to parents as they navigate challenging situations with their children.   Jason can be reached at 330.908.6810 or via e-mail at

Cheryl Cook is in her 12th year as a Lawrence School staff member, having begun her work with the school as a high school mathematics teacher. Cheryl shifted to the role of Academic Dean five years ago. Cheryl’s areas of focus include curriculum and instructional planning, student scheduling, course placement and assessment. Cheryl is the first point of contact for questions about the quality of a student’s academic experience in a particular teacher’s classroom, course scheduling and progress monitoring. Cheryl can be reached at 330.908.6804 or via e-mail at

Shanika Lovelace has been a part of the Lawrence School community for 16 years. For the first nine years, Shanika served as a math teacher in our middle school, then moved to a leadership role as Dean of Students six years ago. Shanika’s areas of focus include teacher supervision and evaluation, mental health and behavioral support for students who are struggling and school-wide student life and wellness initiatives. Shanika is the first point of contact for serious concerns related to a student’s social or psychological needs, questions about classroom management in a particular classroom or contact from a student’s counselor or physician as related to their social or behavioral performance at school. Shanika can be reached at 330.908.6805 or via e-mail at

Melissa Tullis began her career at Lawrence School in 2012 as a substitute teacher, soon moving to the full-time role of Building Substitute Teacher and Coordinator in 2014. In the spring of 2015, Melissa was appointed to the role of Administrative Coordinator to the Campus Leadership Council. Melissa provides administrative and program support to the Head and Deans, and is the first point of contact to reach Jason, Cheryl or Shanika. Melissa is also responsible for student parking and locker assignments, should there be questions on these topics.  Melissa can be reached at 330.908.6827 or via e-mail at

Five Tips For Battling The Back-To-School Jitters

With the start of the new school year inching closer each day, many of us – students, parents, educators and administrators alike – are often left wondering, “Where did the summer go?” But for others, the start of the school year brings much stronger emotions. Jason Culp, our Head of Upper School, offers some advice for helping children cope with back-to-school anxiety.  

I remember approaching my seventh grade year with nothing but anxiety and dread.

I had always been something of an anxious kid, but the prospect of middle school had alarms of all kinds going off in my head: What if I don’t make friends? What if I cannot keep up with the workload? What if I get in trouble?

On and on it went, all summer long, right into the new school year. My mom tried her best to reassure me that there was really nothing to fear, but I was having none of it. Middle school, I had decided, was not for me.

Looking back now, I can smile and know that the anxiety of that year did not plague me through the rest of middle school or into high school. I eventually overcame my fears, finished seventh grade and moved forward in school. However, I have never really forgotten what it felt like to be so afraid of school that some days I flatly refused to go at all.

Each year, as the “Back-To-School” ads begin to flood TV and radio and fill my mailbox, I think about the kids who are not looking forward to new school supplies and a fresh start. While I am hopeful that most, if not all, of our Lawrence Lions are looking forward to an exciting and positive year ahead, I recognize that some – particularly those who are making big transitions – may be a little less than excited at the prospect.

For some – like our rising seventh graders – it means coming from the small, intimate environment of our Lower School into a much larger Upper School with many more classmates. In other cases, this year’s transition means a new grade level and new teachers. And while that may not seem like a major transition, new teachers can often mean big changes.


For still others, the change is huge – coming from another school in a far-away community to Lawrence. This, of course, means everything is new; from what to wear, how to get home from school, to everything in between; including making new friends.

Changes, whatever their size, can breed anxiety and tension in even the most resilient and confident child. For those who have struggled in school in the past, the thought of a new school year can surface old fears and make the transition to the first day of school quite difficult.

In the hope of easing this year’s transition, here are some tips to consider:

  1. Visit the campus – more than once, if needed. In most schools, including Lawrence, administrative and office staff are back in the office and working. As such, making an appointment to tour the school, visit classrooms and check out the locker situation is often an easy arrangement. Frequently, the simple act of walking through an unfamiliar space when you have time to really look and explore can be a huge stress reliever. For students who fear the unknown, there is nothing more helpful than making their new school feel like a known entity through a visit during the relative quiet of an early August day.
  1. Attend as many back-to-school events as possible (and bring your child when appropriate). Lawrence School, like most schools, has orientation programs, sports nights and other programs where parents and students can meet teachers and other staff. While sometimes it seems there might be better ways to spend the last minutes of summer, the best thing for an anxious child is exposure to the new environment in a social, low-anxiety situation. Furthermore, let teachers and staff know that your child is feeling anxious. Most school staff will go well out of their way to help an anxious child feel comfortable and safe.
  1. Let the questions fly! If you have questions about the new school setting, or your child is asking questions you can’t answer, encourage the child to e-mail a contact person at the school and ask their questions. Not sure who to contact? Call the school office and ask the administrative assistant. If the child is asking the questions and receiving answers, he or she is building a connection to school staff that will likely carry them through even the most anxiety-ridden first day.
  1. Conduct a Dress Rehearsal. Never has a play been produced when there was not a dress rehearsal the night before, ensuring that everything is ready for the big day. So, conduct your own dress rehearsal. Set the alarms, try on the new clothes and shoes, pack the backpack, then time the drive to school. Time it right, and you can stop for lunch on the way home. Let your child see that everything is planned and organized and that you’re ready for any contingency.
  1. Remind your child that others may be anxious as well. The important message here is helping your child understand that some level of anxiety about a new school year is to be expected. Additionally, it is reassuring for kids to hear that there may be other students who are anxious as well and what they are experiencing is not “weird” or a problem. An anxious child will likely assume that everyone else is adjusting well and feeling excited about the year ahead. Knowing that their friends may be anxious as well can normalize the experience.

Certainly, if you feel your child’s anxiety is beyond what is reasonable for the back to school season, consult with school personnel, your child’s pediatrician or a professional counselor.

Best wishes for an exciting and low-anxiety transition back to school. We are so looking forward to seeing the campus come alive in the next few weeks!

Jason Culp

Jason Culp is the Head of Upper School at Lawrence and has been a member of the school’s community since 2002. He holds a bachelor’s degree in psychology from Baldwin-Wallace College and a Master’s degree in Mental Health Counseling from Capella University.  Jason is licensed as a Professional Counselor (PC) with the State of Ohio Counselor, Social Worker and Marriage and Family Therapist Board. He welcomes all comments and questions, which can be directed to him directly at